Being in a Relationship

Recently been reflecting on single life. Did a lot more things when single - go out, trips more often, and made plans with a variety of people (providing that they are available) to do spontaneous random things. Lately, Been spending a lot of time with my significant other, and social life is to say the lease boring.

A creature who constantly desires freedom - free to do whatever wishes, free to be wherever.

Is it possible to have the same things in a single life while still being in a relationship? It would vary on individuals in there own relationships. As they are getting to know each other.

The biggest clich?s out there is "The grass is always greener on the other side." As wishing for something you can't have, and thinking that just out of reach is something much better. Don't think anything speaks to that more than the differences between being in a relationship and being single.

Advantages to being single:

- Can pick up and do anything, anytime of day or night. No checking in with anyone, no asking for permission.

- Free to flirt with anyone, provided they're single and don't come off as a jerk.

- Life is infinitely cheaper. Don't have to pick up dinners/movies/flowers. Savings large amounts of money.

- Life is also considerably more drama free. No more having to listen to complains about co-workers, or creating drama within the relationships just to see if still love them or not.

Disadvantages to being single/unattached:

- No one to go to movies/events with.

- No one to share household duties.

- Not getting to see your boyfriend/girlfriend's face light up when you surprise them with their favorite surprise. The way he/she feels hugging you when they're into you. The curves of her body as you guys settle in together for the night. How they smile when you look at them and know what they are thinking. That's the good stuff in a relationship. That might be the greenest grass I see everyday as a single person.

Being single in the modern era sucks for anyone really, both male and females. I see online dating as only scams to take lonely people's money... sure it works for some, but those are the lucky exceptions. For as Clixstar Social, the singles would decide whether to become an affiliate and receive some money back. Even if they don't find anyone to connect with.

Gill Adams is published on more than 300 websites. He writes about Social Dating life styles, relationships, love, and family lifestyles. He is published on various website including https://clixstarsocial.com